Cancerversary #6

July 24, 2025

Six Stars Tattoo for Six Years Living with Metastatic Breast Cancer

On July 10, 2019 I found a lump in my right breast. Seventeen days later, July 24, 2019, I was told that I had breast cancer that had already spread to my bones, liver and adrenal gland. This came after 9 years of annual mammograms that were “not positive for cancer.” My most recent was 9 months before I found the lump. In 2020, the breast cancer spread to my brain. 

I have received radiation for the tumor on my adrenal gland and one in my shoulder bone. I received five rounds of SRS (radiation) to my brain. I have infusion treatments every three weeks and will for the remainder of my life. I have had three rounds of gamma knife to brain tumors and recently had laser ablation of the newest brain tumor – my 12th one. 

Since my diagnosis I have learned that I have extremely dense breast tissue that makes it much harder to see breast cancer on a mammogram AND is a significant risk factor for developing breast cancer. A person with dense breast tissue has a 60% higher risk for developing breast cancer than a person without dense breast tissue.. How I wish I had known this before my diagnosis. I had never heard of breast density and didn’t know I should have been receiving additional screenings each year in addition to my mammogram. 

Did you know that there are scarce resources dedicated to researching Metastatic Breast Cancer? 

I am raising money for METAvivor because 100% of their funds go to researching Metastatic Breast Cancer – the only breast cancer that kills. I need research to find new treatments to extend my life. 

This is a link to my fundraising page.

https://donate.metavivor.org/fundraiser/5554408

Poking my Head out from the Cave Again

July 24, 2025 will be the sixth anniversary of my Metastatic Breast Cancer diagnosis. July 10, 2019 was the day I found the lump. The days in between that and the horrible diagnosis are etched in my memory. July is a difficult month for me. I have not felt like blogging for a long time. This is what my body has been through so far:

Treatments: 102

Gamma Knife Procedure: 3

Brain Radiation SRS: 5 rounds

Adrenal Gland Radiation: 5 rounds

Shoulder Radiation: 1 round

Spine Surgery: 1

LITT to remove a brain tumor: 1

Brain MRIs: 17

Whole Body Bone Scans: 14

Chest/Ab/Pelvic CT Scans: 19

Echocardiograms: 9

Heart MRIs: 9

Breast MRI: 1

Complete Spinal MRI: 1

Thoracentesis to drain fluid from my lung: 2

Hospitalizations: three

This was a photo from treatment 102. Next Tuesday, July 22, will be #103. It has been a whole year since I had a new brain tumor – a record for me. Along with my infusions every 3 weeks, I take 2 oral chemo pills morning and night. They are not kind to my digestive system, but they are manageable, especially since it seems to be working. I am an ambassador for #LightUpMBC again. We raise money for Metavivor for metastatic breast cancer research. This is even more important now that the controlling political party has slashed billions from cancer research through the NIH with the support of every voter who helped to elect them. My fundraising page can be found here:

https://donate.metavivor.org/fundraiser/555408

I am grateful for those of you who have reached out to me while my blog was on hiatus. It means a lot to me. The painted rocks seen in photo at the top of this blog were a special gift from 3 people who know just how to add smiles to my day. Some of you even keep up with my treatment days (still every 3 weeks and still on Tuesdays). A little text or email to let me know you are thinking of me really brightens up those days. I am really tired of dealing with Stage IV cancer every day. Grief over that and missing my mom seep into all aspects of my life. Most days I still have the urge to pick up the phone and call Mom, to share something exciting or something that scares me. I carry her with me in my heart always. I appreciate any shares of this site, as I am still taking a huge step back from social media. You can also sign up to receive new blog posts via email.

I leave you with my new mantra: You don’t have to like it or want it or approve of it. Simply allow it to be there – because it already is.